We've visited three schools so far. There's another program which is in a building that is closing this spring, and the future of it is unsure, so we haven't visited there, and there's a few other specialized programs we haven't seen, such as the high school part of the inclusion school Janey used to go to. But the three we've visited are the three main choices we have right now.
To start with, I'll say that at all three schools, I was impressed with the dedication, talent and caring of the teachers, administrators, aides and other staff I saw. That has been the case almost universally as we've been involved in the Boston public schools for the last 21 years with our three kids.
However, there were rather huge differences between the programs we visited. This is another hallmark of the Boston schools---the uneven distribution of resources and the way it always feels like each school is a world unto itself, with little feeling that any school really gets what another school in the very same district is doing.
|The complex map of Boston schools!|
We did see the students eventually, in the gym shooting baskets. We got to talk to a few of them. The ones we talked to were quite a bit more verbal than Janey is, and although we were told there are a wide variety of students there, I got the feeling most were probably more academically and spoken language oriented than Janey.
We asked about electives like music and were told there are none at all, at least not formally. Aides do provide informal electives.
We left feeling that Janey would be safe there, but not that it was really the place for her. I somehow couldn't quite picture Janey there. She isn't interested in or really aware of money, she certainly wouldn't be into shooting baskets, music is too huge a part of her life to not have any music at school, and overall, it just didn't feel like a match for her. But it was a good program, and I think would be just right for many kids.
The second school was in a very, very run down building, in the heart of the city. It was, quite frankly, a dump. The classrooms for autistic kids were again in the cellar, in 2 crowded rooms. The room for the older kids, especially, was very crammed, mostly taken up by a large setup for serving sandwiches, which is the main activity for older students. The hallways were claustrophobic, in my eyes anyway.
However, the teacher of the room full of younger students was great, just highly gifted as a teacher. The students were doing their morning meeting, which they pretty much ran themselves. Each student said good morning to every other student, in verbal or non-verbal ways. They discussed the weather, said the Pledge of Allegiance and talked about current events. The students were at widely varying levels of speech, and some that didn't appear to speak verbally went up to the board and wrote down things with perfect handwriting and understanding. It was an impressive class to watch.
In some ways, I could see Janey at that school. However, in a lot of ways, I couldn't. It was sad to see how little had been done to make the school a nice place for the kids. There seemed to be very little for the students to do when they were older (special needs students go to school until they are 22, generally) Again, there were no electives. I asked about kids being paid for work, and they don't have that program and seemed only a little aware of it. It's not that I want Janey to work a paying job, but it's an example of the variation between schools.
We would not accept a placement for Janey at that school, we decided. It was too crowded, too chaotic in the halls, and somehow just felt a little unsafe---with nothing taken away from the teachers, who were great.
And then the third school. This one was VERY far from us. It took us about an hour to drive there, and to get there, we had to go through several other towns than Boston, although it's in Boston---just at one extreme end of the city and we are at the other extreme end.
However, the program there was GREAT. It's our clear choice.
They had us there pretty much at hello, as the directer giving us the tour said "First we'll show you the students and classes, and then the students will all be going to music and dance, so you can talk to the teachers". They have music and dance!!
There were four classrooms in the program. The students move from room to room, like regular high schoolers. We saw many students, working at many different tasks. In general, the students seemed to be academically much like Janey. Many seemed to not speak verbally, or speak verbally just a little. Some seemed to have multiple challenges, like being in wheelchairs.
The teachers all seemed very dedicated, and there were many aides. One room at first didn't have students in it, and the teacher said they were in the greenhouse. A greenhouse! That made me so excited!
The students have swimming at least twice a week, and on Fridays, most students go offsite to various places. There are various opportunities to work within the building, although again, they aren't paid---not an issue.
It's hard sometimes to say exactly why one program seems right, but this one did. We could see Janey there, absolutely. The fact there is music, even if it was just that alone, is a HUGE factor. The distance---not ideal. But Janey loves to ride the bus, and with Tony now retired, if we needed to go get her, we could (I couldn't do the drive---I just don't drive much, and not in complicated areas like needed for this drive, but Tony can!)
So---we know what our first choice will be. I very much hope that is where Janey is placed. If not, I think we are ready for a fight. We've never really fought for much for Janey at school, mostly because we just haven't had to. We've agreed with most decisions made. And from what I've heard, usually you can get into the program we liked, partly because not everyone wants that far away location. But with the one program possibly closing, things could change. We are ready to be advocates. It's not my favorite thing to do, but we've both decided that Janey WILL attend that program.
I'd be very curious to hear from others about high school decisions (or any school choice decisions). I know most places don't have as many choices as Boston. Growing up in a rural area, the only school choice at that time was take it or leave it. We are lucky to have options here, but it can feel a bit nervewracking. I wish Janey could just stay where she is, but life does keep moving. And next year, it will be moving Janey on to high school. Wow.